fix(settings): fix latency ping and tunnel auto-reconnect defaults

- Default latencyPingEnabled to false so badges are hidden until opted in
- Fix toggleLatencyPing sync condition from !== false to === true to match
  the new default correctly
- Default tunnelAutoReconnect to true so tunnels reconnect automatically
  out of the box
- Hide latency badges in virtual hosts and service tunnels tables when
  latency ping is disabled

native-host/holesail-manager/state.js

@@ -20,8 +20,8 @@ const SETTINGS_DEFAULTS = {
   disableOnFileUrls: false,
   backupRetention: 5,
   backupIntervalHours: 0,
-  tunnelAutoReconnect: false,
-  latencyPingEnabled: true,
+  tunnelAutoReconnect: true,
+  latencyPingEnabled: false,
   latencyPingIntervalMs: 5000
 };